We know, we know. Our invitation casts doubt on whether this event is happening on 10/11 or 10/25. We are getting married on October 11th, 2025.

We also gently suggest you not joke about what day the wedding is actually happening, because 10/25 is also (tragically) a Saturday and, in this economy, you're never financially recovering from any joke-incurred mistakes.

Room blocks have been reserved for out-of-town guests at the Moxy and the Arlo hotels, both located within a half-mile of the ceremony. Be sure to make your reservation by August 25th, 2025 to receive group rates.

For the Moxy:

Click this link to reserve discounted rooms from October 10th-12th, 2025.

For the Arlo:

Click this link, select Arlo Williamsburg as the hotel of choice, and enter your arrival and departure dates. Search results will populate rates with a discount already applied.

The Welcome Party: Take the L to Montrose.

The Ceremony and Reception: Take the G or L to Metropolitan/Lorimer or Bedford.

Sunday Brunch: Take the L to Bedford or the G to Nassau.

If you have recently come into a large sum of money or are some kind of real estate magnate, Uber and Lyft are, of course, also viable options.

The Welcome Party: For obvious reasons, we’ll be screening Mamma Mia over dinner, drinks, and conversation at the Syndicated Theater. We can’t imagine sharing this weekend with anyone but those we love the most (Christine Baranski and the extras who clap their snorkeling fins during “Lay All Your Love on Me”). Please note, we're not covering food or drink at this shindig!

The Ceremony and Reception: What our ceremony venue lacks in abundant seating, it makes up for in quality pasta. If you’re willing and comfortably able to stand for the length of our 25-minute ceremony (looking at you, 2025 NYC Marathon registrants), please let us know in your RSVP. We will have plenty of seating for guests who need or want it, so please be honest about the accommodations you’ll need to enjoy the evening!

Sunday Brunch: We see your hangover and raise you Edith's Bagels and coffee in the Patio Wing at McCarren Parkhouse. Breakfast is on us this morning.

A Note About Children: Due to capacity restrictions, we kindly request that our ceremony and reception remain adults-only.

To answer the question Matt has about every “cocktail” dress code we’ve ever followed, please don’t feel obligated to wear a tie unless you are planning to close an important business deal on the wedding day. Wearing white is also fine so long as you’re willing to be whispered about by other guests.


Please be as casual as you’d like for the events before and following the wedding!


For details about What Not To Wear, consider hanging outside the Trader Joe's on Court Street, where Sydney once saw Stacy London.